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My Personal Story of Loss and Resilience

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I’m Dr. Andrea Arlington—a Certified Family Recovery and Relationship Coach, Case Manager, and Invitational Interventionist with over a decade of experience helping families heal from addiction, crisis, and relational breakdowns. Today, I also guide high-capacity women through personal reinvention—women who’ve built extraordinary lives yet feel disconnected from their own peace. Whether you're navigating family recovery or returning to yourself, my work is rooted in compassion, nervous system wisdom, and the belief that healing is the gateway to wholeness.

 

Transforming Pain into Purpose

Driven by my personal experiences, I've dedicated

my life to guiding others through similar struggles.

I understand the depths of despair that addiction

brings along with generational trauma and our

childhood, unresolved wounds. In my recovery

journey, I came to know the power of support,

of having a coach who walked and crawled in my shoes, and helped by instilling hope,

building resilience, and find myself and my joy. My families story of turning trauma into triumph has been featured in a Netflix Documentary, in a Major Motion Picture and in many news outlets and television shows.

 

My journey to coaching is rooted in personal trials.

At 21, I faced the profound loss of my brother, Ben, to addiction, leaving

a lasting impact on me and my family.

This wasn't my only brush with addiction's harsh realities;

I also navigated through my daughter's battle with heroin

addiction. These experiences deeply acquainted me with

addiction's multifaceted challenges, affecting not just the

individual, but the entire family.

Our lowest point came when our private life, including

my daughter's involvement in the "Bling Ring" Celebrity

burglaries, was aired on "Pretty Wild," publicly magnifying

our struggles and pain. Despite this, hope remained.

Remarkably, my daughter and her friend have now been

heroin-free for over a decade, leading fulfilling lives and

caring for their children. Their story is a testament to

recovery's power. Our family's narrative is a mix of hardship

and triumph, a reminder that even in darkness, there's

always hope for healing and renewal.

 

2013 marked a turning point for me, marked by the end of my

11-year marriage and the birth of my granddaughter, Harper,

amidst a toxic relationship with her mother, my daughter Alexis.

That year, Alexis and her husband confronted me, leading me to

recognize that my own wounded inner child was contributing to

our struggles.

 

Their words propelled me to seek guidance from mentors, coaches, and therapists.

Harper's arrival ignited my resolve to break the cycle of addiction and mental health issues in our family and address the generational trauma. Recognizing myself as an "adult child," I committed to a deep exploration of addiction and co-dependency, aiming to heal not only my family but also myself.

I’m now a coach for both families in crisis and women ready for personal rebirth. My approach is rooted in empathy, education, and

empowerment - designed to heal not only individuals, but the

systems and stories that shape them.Whether you’re navigating

a loved one’s addictionor realizing it’s your time to come home

to yourself, I offer more than strategies—I offer sacred partnership.

Through decades of lived and professional experience, I help my clients cultivate emotional safety, deepen self-trust, and create lasting change.

Together, we’ll explore healing, reshape your inner landscape, and build a future rooted in peace, presence, and personal truth.

This is your invitation to step forward—into recovery, reinvention, or both.
Let’s begin.

Andrea Arlington's baby brother Ben who dies from addiction
Andrea Arlington Tess and Alexis Released from jai
Andrea Arlington Our Family in PrettyWild Reality Show Promo
Andrea Arlington Our family 10 years after Heroin addiction
Andrea Arlington A new generation begins in our family
Andrea Arlington with mother and daughter clients
Andrea Arlington and daughter Alexis Haines discuss their healing journey on Netflix interview
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